2 April 2020
And so it was, that with the coming of all the afflictions that have plagued mankind ever since Pandora first opened that Box, Hope came too.
Hope, to me, means expecting with confidence and anticipating positive outcomes. I love the horse’s expression in this sketch above. He has his ears pricked and he is striding out with vigour. He knows that if he just keeps going one step at a time the dark clouds will be behind him and there may be blue sky above. History tells us that this is the case; every crisis follows the trajectory of a bell shaped curve, it peaks, and then it disappears. As a psychologist today, my role is to encourage my clients to maintain this belief or faith, because with faith comes hope and hope defeats fear.
The storm will pass – keep going.
10 October 2018
One family’s pathway through the independent education system.
· What ages for which stage?
· Which pre-school?
· When to go to prep school?
· Private secondary school vs grammar school?
· How to choose a private senior school?
· How to decide on GCSE options subjects?
· How to decide which course to take after 16?
Verity’s children started their Early Years education in their local village at the primary school. This primary school had a pre-school associated with it, so they were able to start there, aged two.
The pre-school had the same terms as the primary school although the days were a little shorter, 9am – 3pm. If Verity had had a full-time job at this time she may well have looked to send her children to an independent pre-school associated with a prep school. Schools such as these often offer have school days which ru from 8am – 6pm, although their terms are sometimes significantly shorter.
Verity’s two children, a girl and a boy two years apart transitioned seamlessly from pre-school to the primary school. It was always the intention that at the end of Year 4 they would go on to preparatory school. This being the rural South East the prep schools tend not to be selective, so for Verity it was a case of researching and visiting the schools that she liked the look of and putting her daughter’s and then her son’s name down. Both children moved to prep school when they were seven at the beginning of Year 3, albeit two years apart.
As Verity’s daughter was nearing 11, Verity started to consider which senior school her daughter should progress on to. Verity considered briefly putting her in for the 11+ in an attempt to get her in to a Kent grammar school but for a variety of reasons decided against this. Had she decided on this route she wold have needed to register for her to sit the test in the summer of Y5 with a view to sitting it in the September of Y6.
The Headmaster of the prep school had some firm opinions about which senior independent schools he favoured and which he believed would be most suitable for Verity’s daughter and two years later, her son. Verity’s daughter was accomplished at sports, so schools offering opportunities for sports scholarships were on the agenda. Additionally Verity needed to take in to account how her daughter was likely to perform in an entrance exam if one was required, as well as her likely attainment in the Common Entrance Exam. Verity’s budget allowed her to keep their options open and consider boarding school, which meant that they could look at establishments much further away from home.
Verity had completed her research for a school and pretty much made a final decision by the time her daughter was in Y7. Scholarship assessments were taken in the Spring of Y8 and Common Entrance in that summer. Verity’s daughter started at her new school in Y9 when she was 13. By this time Verity was well in the throes of carrying out the same research process for her son.
The two children were now at different boarding schools – the daughter had gone to an all girls’ school and the son had chosen a co-ed school. During the first year at senior school, Y9, choices were made for GCSE subjects – ‘Options’, and the GCSE courses started at the beginning of Y10.
When they were studying for their GSCEs it became clear that the daughter was showing a flair for Maths and the sciences and her A level subject choices appeared to be a given. However the son was not demonstrating any clear strengths in any specific subjects and could not reach a decision with regard to what A levels to take. Verity encouraged her son to have a look at the International Baccalaureate a course of study which requires students to sit six subjects – Maths, English, a science, a humanity, a language and a free choice as well as an Extended Essay and a prescribed amount of ‘Creatiity, Action and Service’ . This course was deemed by Verity’s son to be an appealing option so he enrolled in a different school that specialised in teaching the ‘IB’ at 6 form.
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